Visit www.samaritans.org or www.befrienders.org for additional help.
Where I feel online counselling would not be the most suitable means of support, I will make every effort to assist you in a referral to a suitable alternative source of support.
I am not able to provide online counselling to any person who is under the age of 18. If this applies to you, I can help with information on referral to other agencies providing face to face counselling services or online work which is specifically directed to a younger age group.
Why Choose Online Counselling?
Types of Online Counselling
Instant Messaging Counselling
Instant feedback obtained from online messaging counselling can be comforting for those who wish to interact and respond immediately. Sessions take place at a pre-arranged time using Zoom which you can download Zoom by clicking here.
Video Counselling
Sessions take place via Zoom. Together we will plan a suitable time for us to meet. Before each session ensure you are alone and won't be disturbed. It is also a good idea to check you have good internet connection before you start. As with instant messaging counselling, we will meet at a pre agreed time.
Email Counselling
We will agree in advance a day and time by which I will respond to your email(s), typically the same every week. I will spend the length of a counselling session, 50 minutes, reading and responding to you. I suggest you spend a similar amount of time composing your email as this helps to foster a commitment to the counselling process. I use the secure email platform Protonmail which can be downloaded for free by clicking here.
Tips to Maintain Privacy
It is difficult to completely hide your internet activity but here are some helpful tips which can assist in maintaining the privacy of your email counselling:
Setting up a Private e-mail Address
If you want to send and receive personal e-mail it is possible to set up your own e-mail address which only you will have access to as long as you keep your username and password private. You can set up a web-based e-mail address so you can access e-mail from any computer with an internet connection by logging on at the main site of the provider you have chosen. Protonmail offers free encrypted email services which offer security for your mail exchanges, either on a personal level or when engaging with a counsellor.
How do I choose where to use the internet?
If you are seeking privacy the safest way will be somewhere you are unlikely to be disturbed, or that others could view the screen or hear whilst you are writing an email or in a webcam session with your counsellor.
Your website history / cache file
Your computer automatically keeps a history of the web pages you visit and may save graphics, cookies and other files to your computer. This means others can find out which websites you have visited by looking through your computer's history or cache file. You can clear your history or empty your cache file in your browser's settings.
Internet Explorer
Click on the Tools menu (in the row at the top of the browser).
Select Internet Options from the drop down menu.
Select the tab labelled 'General'.
Under the title, 'Temporary Internet Files', click on 'Delete Files'.
You can also check the box that says delete all offline content.
Then, under 'History' click on 'Clear History.'
Then click OK, at the bottom.